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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 3:12:03 GMT -5
Imagine a fairy godmother granted you one of the following two wishes - which one would you choose?
1. 24 h locked in a bedroom with Jake, reenacting "Love and other drugs" and every other fantasy you can come up with (you're current partner- if you have one - would not mind ever) - BUT after that you will never ever see Jake again in person and you'd have to go back to admiring him from a distance.
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2. lifelong friendship: None of your respective partners would ever get jealous of your friendship, you'd see Jake in person on a regular basis, you'd talk on the phone a couple of times every week, you'd get to accompany him to award shows and so on - BUT he'd never have any romantic feeling for you what so ever, he'd never even kiss you.
I'm curious about your answers and why you'd make that choice.
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Post by eausavage on Nov 24, 2010 8:27:36 GMT -5
I'll go for the second, frindship during for life, love affair, or relationship can be compliacted sometime, and people can be apart after a break-up, atleast feelings are fragile.
Friednship is lasting, there's intimacy, you can lean on your best friend, he/her always told you the truth, nevre lied, and gives advice for your best, as friends take care of you a lot.
So i would love to have one stunning amazing peorson like Gyllenhaal among my friend.
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 8:35:40 GMT -5
I just realised I can add a poll - which I did now.
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 8:37:00 GMT -5
I'd choose nr. 2 as well. Especially since I have a family I love just as much with a carring husband who let's me drool all I want over Jake without being jealous.
(That's because I never get to meet him I think.)
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Post by eausavage on Nov 24, 2010 8:38:56 GMT -5
thanks i've submitted my vote!
I don't think any of my realtives is jelous of Gyllenhaal, at least it's just my business!
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 8:40:13 GMT -5
my relatives don't care either, but I think it's different if you're married. Then again - it's not like Jake lives next door or anything...
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lana
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Post by lana on Nov 24, 2010 8:41:04 GMT -5
Second choice!! I would love having a person like jake as friend.  |
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Post by eausavage on Nov 24, 2010 8:44:09 GMT -5
my relatives don't care either, but I think it's different if you're married. Then again - it's not like Jake lives next door or anything... naaaa i have an horrible temper, nobody, nor even my lover, my boyfriend, my father, my fiancee could told me what to watch or not, as i'm seriuosly addicted to Gyllenhaal and his movie, nobody could force me to a sort of "out out"..... ;D Lana we're all go for the same option  |
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 8:55:11 GMT -5
I know how you feel but I try to be sensitive to my hubby. He works shifts and so we only spend weeknights together every third week. So I try to limit Jake on those nights and spend the ones my hubby is at work with following up on Jake.
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lana
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Post by lana on Nov 24, 2010 9:03:35 GMT -5
my relatives don't care either, but I think it's different if you're married. Then again - it's not like Jake lives next door or anything... naaaa i have an horrible temper, nobody, nor even my lover, my boyfriend, my father, my fiancee could told me what to watch or not, as i'm seriuosly addicted to Gyllenhaal and his movie, nobody could force me to a sort of "out out"..... ;D Lana we're all go for the same option hehe yes i see  At home, they don't care about jake lol so i can do what i want  |
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 9:06:42 GMT -5
Unfortunately doing what we want is sometimes limited by the fact that the person we wanna do it with ain't around...
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Post by eausavage on Nov 24, 2010 11:56:29 GMT -5
oh Sasha i know what you meanSasha, fortunately my lover, i'm actually non engaged, but i was, isn't jelous about my fav actor, Jake Gyllenhaal actually, i can spend all the time that i wish on my vaio browsing for some info, update on his new movies, or working on some fan art, but i guess it's lovely on your side to atke acre of your husban.
Lana we all have the same idea, better Gyllenhaal as friend then one fierce night and nothin more for the rest of our life!
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Nov 24, 2010 15:30:42 GMT -5
You know, eausavage, sometimes I get carried away by dreaming about Jake, then I need to tell myself that I need to put at least the same amount of energy into my marriage otherwise I'll be left all by myself one day.
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I originally joined IHJ on 09/01/05 ;)
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Post by jsrocks on Nov 24, 2010 16:19:49 GMT -5
both
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Post by eausavage on Nov 24, 2010 17:14:05 GMT -5
You know, eausavage, sometimes I get carried away by dreaming about Jake, then I need to tell myself that I need to put at least the same amount of energy into my marriage otherwise I'll be left all by myself one day. i understand how you may feel fortunaltely i have no one actually, so i didn't felt gulty to give all my attention on Gyllenhaal |
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