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Post by eausavage on Aug 2, 2011 19:03:06 GMT -5
Can I just say love sucks? Sorry I haven't been around much, I haven't forgotten about Jake or all you wonderful IHJ people. I got caught up in a a wonderful romance with a wonderful man, and I just got my heart broken, and I'm never falling in love again. Just going to love Jake from a far.. Oh Marie, i'm such sorry for you really, thanks so mcuh for sharing i know that it's the pain it's unbereable actually i hope that you'll starting feeling better really, please keep us posted <3
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Aug 3, 2011 2:25:13 GMT -5
great and very true line, to memorise. You're welcome.
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Post by mintonl1 on Aug 18, 2011 19:43:15 GMT -5
Okay so I was just surfing around the web and I came across some old pictures of Jake. So I scrolled all the way to the top of the page and finally realized that I was on yet another Jake site! That was the 3rd one I have found! Oh and they congratulated IHJ on the new layout!
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Aug 19, 2011 1:48:45 GMT -5
Cool, which one was it?
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Post by mintonl1 on Aug 19, 2011 15:53:14 GMT -5
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Post by eausavage on Aug 25, 2011 18:29:23 GMT -5
thanks for sharing Laura!It's nice that the works of Stephanie and Connie had so much praice!
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Post by xxmariexx on Sept 5, 2011 11:31:33 GMT -5
^ Thanks girls for your kind words and help! Gyllenhaalics are the best! I am doing okay. I was lucky to be able to take a vacation with a good girlfriend and family, and it was good to get away from all of it, and get some sun and relaxation which really helped. It's just been a really tough breakup. It really came out of nowhere, and he is being such a jerk right now, that he has also ruined the possibility of ever being friends. Our relationship was going great, he had been a family friend for years, and I fell for him hard. The last weekend before we broke up, he went with me on a weekend trip with family, and everything was great. We came back on Monday, and he seemed fine. By Tuesday he was acting weird, cold, and distant, and on that Friday he dumped me at a Starbucks, giving me BS excuses for doing so. And a month later, and he is still being a jerk. And yeah, that's how it ended.
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Post by jfaulkin on Sept 5, 2011 11:44:30 GMT -5
Sorry to hear he is still being a jerk...but glad you feeling better.
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Post by eausavage on Sept 5, 2011 11:44:34 GMT -5
Ohh dear i'mm truly truly sorry, i hate men when acting like this, i mean is there's something that going wrong why they never dare to spoke it out? It's something such exausting and painful, when breac comes such suddently and there's no sign that something going wrong... I'm glad to read you back, a good vacation surely helped you a bit, feel free to post here if you need to confide to us! Kisses and huggies dear.
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Post by mermon on Sept 5, 2011 12:52:29 GMT -5
xxmariexx - I don't want to give you any hope, cause maybe it's not even worth to have one. But I will tell you shortly the story of my friend. Me and her met her boyfriend at the disco, at the entry tickets line, actually. They noticed each other immediately and were dancing all disco night together. And became a couple right away. It was such a big love. Very deep. And he damped her suddenly, unexpectedly, without any explanations. She was devastated, miserable, unhappy - you name it. And I, supporting her, went through very difficult time as well. Then she dated shortly someone else, but no love. She was walking the paths she supposed her ex should take, but she never met him on them. And one day, when she was calm and accepted the fact, she went as an old friend to the student's living place, when he still lived and strangely they started to meet again. He told her, he was choosing the paths she supposedly was taken. That's why they never met. ;D He never explained what was his reasons to leave her. They got married, have two great sons and love each other very deeply. So life is full of surprises.
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Post by eausavage on Sept 5, 2011 12:55:28 GMT -5
Ohh thanks for sharing the story of your friend Mermon, your friend was very very strong to have the willing to start all over again, but it worth as he was the love of her life.
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Post by mermon on Sept 5, 2011 13:03:47 GMT -5
Definitely, they were designed for each other.
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Sept 5, 2011 14:58:35 GMT -5
That's a very cute story, Mermon. Thanks for sharing.
Marie - I can totally understand why you'd feel miserable over this break up. Men are sometimes strange. My husband has a tendency to say something totally different than what he feels/means and it took me quite a while to figure it out. Like one time he got all mad at me for taking two girls to a city about 50 km from our house to choose homecoming ball gowns. I didn't know why he was making such a fuss and he had all sorts of stupid excuses like gas prices and threat of accidents, until I found out that really he had wanted to come along and was mad because we hadn't asked him. So maybe even if he told you a reason, you might not be any wiser. Or the "reason" only makes sense to him, which is why he is not sharing it. Anyway I hope your heart can heal and in time love again. Hugs and kisses!
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Post by mermon on Sept 5, 2011 15:08:15 GMT -5
Sasha, that's a good lesson about men's behaviour. May be quite useful.
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Post by eausavage on Sept 5, 2011 18:52:36 GMT -5
Interesting Sasha, but honestly i'm going to be mad if i had to dealing with his mood, and be the balanced one who's listened and try to understand, you're supposed to be the "MAN", you have the so called manhood, c'mon tell me what you feel straight into the face, maybe i'm too much italian, and italians women are different.... or maybe this is the subtle reason why i'm single ;D LOL ;D
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