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Post by Sasha4Jake on Mar 22, 2011 14:49:47 GMT -5
I certainly hope it's just rumors. Because if it's true I think I had it with her. If Jake and Reese split on consent, wanted by both sides, remaining friends after, she could certainly invite him. But if she left him out of the blue, heartbroken, I don't think he'd even consider showing up there.... And why would she want him there after all, they don't seem to be friends no more...
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trekfan
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Post by trekfan on Mar 22, 2011 14:58:01 GMT -5
I think Jake should date someone outside the industry or someone more low key. Everytime he is seen with someone high profile it is a media circus and he really can't enjoy the experience of getting to know someone well. If you notice actors who date someone who is not high profile have a better chance of living a quiet life without the paps being in their faces constantly. Just look at Anne, do you see her and Adam every 5 mins, being hounded by the paps and tabloids? No. because she is dating someone who is not on their radar. So they're not following their every move.
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Mar 22, 2011 15:20:51 GMT -5
I agree, trekfan. Plus someone who's not in the industry doesn't have to "compete" for success which can be difficult...
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Post by eausavage on Mar 22, 2011 17:58:50 GMT -5
In German press I read, that Reese had been invited Jake to her wedding. Actually I know that's are rumors. But I believe , Reese could do something like that. Should this be true, ultimately I don't know yet how to find this behavior. Is this courtesy, like"you are only invited because i want to show, that I am not the beast. But actually I don't want to see you on my wedding"? Or is this compassion, like "you was a important part of my life and I want that you be with me on my day"? Or is this arrogance, like "look how happy I am with Tim"? As I said it could be gossip! Well like you said well Smilla for what we know, we're make assumptions based all about gossip, but if Witherspoon done this, for whatever reason, several pointed very well from you don't surpriced me at all, surely isn't for Gyllenhaal, she's invited him to her wedding just as she's selfish and if Witherspoon done i know that she's quite mean...it's like slapping into Gyllenhaal's face her happiness with another man, that happines that Gyllenhaal wish to build with her.... Just my tow.
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Post by eausavage on Mar 22, 2011 19:07:49 GMT -5
I think Jake should date someone outside the industry or someone more low key. Everytime he is seen with someone high profile it is a media circus and he really can't enjoy the experience of getting to know someone well. If you notice actors who date someone who is not high profile have a better chance of living a quiet life without the paps being in their faces constantly. Just look at Anne, do you see her and Adam every 5 mins, being hounded by the paps and tabloids? No. because she is dating someone who is not on their radar. So they're not following their every move. I get your point and i agree with you, as well as with Sasha. The main matter is maybe how much honest are people towards celebrities, in Italy there's a lot of mean people that starts dating with celebrities just to become popular in reutrn, i guess that could be an issue for Gyllenhaal, or that maybe is somehting that could worried Gyllenhaal. Think about dating with a nice girl, enjoy her comany and then discover that she've played a game, just to obtain some usefulness, fooling around, and breack you heart again.... I know it sound crazy but it could be a chance... Maybe it coudl be sound too harsh, or unfair towards all the press and paparazzi-some are very nasty, but surely some aren't- but the best thing that Gyllenhaal should do is recruit some bodyguard that following him everywhere for a while, ushing back some paparazzi, or disturbed them, or breack some camera, in other words make them hard, so that paparzzi stay away, from Gyllenhaal's life, for a while....
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evie
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Post by evie on Mar 22, 2011 19:29:26 GMT -5
I think Jake should date someone outside the industry or someone more low key. Everytime he is seen with someone high profile it is a media circus and he really can't enjoy the experience of getting to know someone well. If you notice actors who date someone who is not high profile have a better chance of living a quiet life without the paps being in their faces constantly. Just look at Anne, do you see her and Adam every 5 mins, being hounded by the paps and tabloids? No. because she is dating someone who is not on their radar. So they're not following their every move. I second your thoughts, trekfan, absolutely. Being hounded by the media is a burden and distraction for any blossoming relationship. I've noticed, though, that Jake seems to be drawn to women who are solidly in the business, usually high-profile, successful ones. The question is, would he be interested in a woman who wasn't in some aspect of the performing arts? I once read an article that said it was really hard for actors to meet someone outside the industry; some actors, in fact, use discreet dating services that introduce them to suitable people from other fields and professions. Today I saw a current issue of either OK or Us in the supermarket, and I glanced at it while waiting at the checkout. There's a spread on Reese's wedding this Saturday (and as it happens, today is her birthday). Everything will take place at her ranch in Ojai. I recalled that she bought this property right after she and Jake went public with their romance. Do you remember that? An article at the time said Reese had been wanting to buy a farm or ranch for a long while but that Ryan hadn't wanted to. Jake had encouraged her to go for it. I wonder if he's feeling bitter now? J&R and the kids spent a lot of time up there, it was said. Naturally we don't know, but I believe their breakup was devastating to Jake and that he and Reese did not stay friendly. How could they? She started up with the new man in only a few months. It doesn't seem likely to me that Jake was on the guest list for this wedding.
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Post by eausavage on Mar 22, 2011 19:38:21 GMT -5
Well in POV i don't see Gyllenhaal like the kind that trusts this type of service, he has his feet on the ground and doesn't like being behind the classic bullshit of Hollywood jet-set. ;D Surely their breakup wasen't at all friendly, i could understand Gyllenhaal if he're going to treat her like a dreadful ghost that stumble in his life.
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Post by book on Mar 22, 2011 22:27:34 GMT -5
i dont think jake would go even if he was invited but i cant imagine she would invite him like you said evie i believe jake was devastated by the break up and is finally getting over it i havent heard anything in the us magazins that he was invited so i think its just a rumor i did hear matthew m. was invited and i believe he is a friend of jakes but of course i dont know if that is true either
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Post by ultraviolet on Mar 22, 2011 23:04:38 GMT -5
Anne Hathaway's boyfriend is an actor. He's not well known at this point, but he could be. But he is definitely someone in the business. Of course, she (in)famously dated someone who's not in the business, and that did not work out well at all.
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Post by Sasha4Jake on Mar 23, 2011 3:07:45 GMT -5
I too read that Matthew McConaughey and Jake have been friends for a long time, so Reese might know him through Jake. Plus the industry is kind of tightknitted, so they might have gotten to know each other anyways.
As for dating in or outside - I agree with Evie that it might be difficult to find someone on the outside successfully. Maria does also have a point by mentioning how can you know it's for you and not for your fame. And ultraviolet is very true about Anne - her ex-boyfriend even went to jail and Adam - though not that succesful - is really an actor. But I do "know" examples where it works quite well: Matt Damon's wife was a waitress/bartender when they got to know each other, now she works as an interior designer. Nicolas Cage is currently also married to a waitress named Alice Kim, Pierce Brosnan is married to a journalist and Toby Maguire's wife is a jewlery designer. Since I am not fan of either of these people I don't know if they get pap attention as much as Jake. Honestly sometimes I think we just know how much he get's pap because all the pictures show up on this board too. I for sure would not know how many pap pics there are of Matt Damon and his family as I don't pay attention, but a quick google search showed tons. If you google for pictures of Jake you get 5.710.000 hits, but that includes official pictures. If you google for pictures of "Matt Damon family" you get 4.150.000 hits - almost that many and 99% are pap pics. So Matt must feel just as pressured, we just don't realise as his pictures are not on this site.
I'm not saying that Jake's not under pressure, but we just realise more because we care so much.
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Post by eausavage on Mar 23, 2011 8:16:40 GMT -5
i dont think jake would go even if he was invited but i cant imagine she would invite him like you said evie i believe jake was devastated by the break up and is finally getting over it i havent heard anything in the us magazins that he was invited so i think its just a rumor i did hear matthew m. was invited and i believe he is a friend of jakes but of course i dont know if that is true either Well surely book there's a lot of gossips and rumors towards this wedding, so no wonder there's a lot of confusion about it... Surely i'm thinking thta it's a good chance to obtain advertice and some popularity..damn i cannot stand talking about her anymore....
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Post by eausavage on Mar 23, 2011 8:35:42 GMT -5
I don't know that Matt Damon was that much popular, is a bit impressive, but sometimes dating with people outside Hollywood jet-set works, and sometimes doesn't, depend how much seriuos and loyal is the common person that a celebrity dating with. I mean i don't know how much Matt Damon was popular and harassed from press and paparazzi when he've met his wife, maybe Damon wasen't an hight level celebrity at that time and the things works better, just assumptions. As far as i know Gyllenhaal have the eye-press stuck on his life since he was very very young, every girlfriend he has dated make a hit, as for Brosnan surely he isin't, and he never was, popula as Gyllenhaal is, Craig is much more popular then Brosnan, also he isn't american, and maybe the interest towards his private life is lower... ultraviolet surely Hathaway boyfriend is an actor, even if he's less popular, and that doesn't mean that things works in the end.But even a low level celebrity could dating another celebrity much more famous, just to get more visibility, and popularity.... What if Gyllenhaal dating for a while with a nice girl, but the story ends bad and she'll go straight to talking about her relationship with her ex famous actor to some gossip mangazine? It would be a blast....i guess it's a chance Definitely there's always the dark side of the moon wherever we see the things, feelings are fragile and delicate, i guess everyone take the chance to get hurted in love, but we cannot really love someone, or been loved from someone, if we don't take any risk....sad but true...
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evie
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Post by evie on Mar 23, 2011 13:46:57 GMT -5
Anne Hathaway's boyfriend is an actor. He's not well known at this point, but he could be. But he is definitely someone in the business. Of course, she (in)famously dated someone who's not in the business, and that did not work out well at all. Hey, ultraviolet, it's good to see a comment from you on the board again! It's been a while since you've been here--or have I just missed you when you were? Hope you join us more often. You make a good point about Anne Hathaway. Surely, nothing's a guarantee, in or out of the industry. It would seem to depend on the individuals involved. Her former boyfriend, not an actor, wasn't in the public eye to the degree Anne was until the law caught up with his misdeeds. The current boyfriend, an actor, isn't well known (but as you say, could be), so there's no excitement going on yet, as there probably would be if she was paired with a high-profile actor or, say, a big-time professional athlete. Consider all the frenzy when Jake started seeing Taylor Swift. Both of them are newsworthy in their own right, but linked up, they became fodder for every gossip mag, celebrity blog, and entertainment program, as well as targets for paps and celebrity hounds with cellphone cameras. I have tended to believe that celebrities married or otherwise attached to noncelebrities (who may or may not have a flourishing career of their own) live relatively undisturbed lives with regard to the paps and tabloids. After all, happy, low-key folks don't make for sensational news. BUT--I don't follow anyone but Jake, so I really don't know whether such people actually are left in peace.
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Post by eausavage on Mar 23, 2011 13:55:26 GMT -5
We canno say how it coudl be if Gyllenhaal starts dating with a noncelebrity girl, maybe due to all his business it's also hard that he could meet randomly a girl outside Hollywood insustry, it's just an assumption BTW, but if Gyllenhaal dating with a common girl i could guessing that paparazzi still bother him the same, sadly, just in my pov, press, gay sider press, and gossip press are very very morbid and pathological to him.
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sword
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Post by sword on Mar 23, 2011 16:08:38 GMT -5
I'd really like to know that JG starts dating with a noncelebrity girl ... ... but I think we are still a couple Gyllenhaal/Swift ... ... However, in this interview, when asked if he is still "on market" (bad expression) Jake intelligently responded ... ... Gyllenhaal slyly answered, "By ' on the market ' or ' off the market ', do you mean I am a fresh vegetable or am I canned? Can you pay for me at the checkout? Is that what you mean? You can definitely pay for a little piece of me "if you go see ' Source Code."Read more: extratv.warnerbros.com/2011/03/jake_gyllenhaal_to_extra_you_can_pay_for_a_little_piece_of_me.php#ixzz1HMSs8NE2
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